A Critique of Modern Relationship Advice: And Dose of Reality for Women Especially

When I first met Tom, I didn’t like him. We met hiking. I was sitting under a tree with my shoes off at the end of the trail, making small talk with another hiker. We were discussing where we were from when Tom strolled up. We welcomed him into the conversation and after telling us …

My Most Vulnerable Share Yet… Coming out of the Relationship Anxiety (ROCD) Closet

I have been wanting to write this newsletter for a while. In fact, this topic was the catalyzing spark that inspired me to get my fingers back on the keys and start writing again in the first place.  When I began this newsletter project last year though, I wasn’t ready to jump in with this …

On Intuition and Fear… My Surprising Results from a Risky Experiment

I went through a period recently where I tried not listening to my intuition. To be clear, I did this on purpose. I know this sounds counterproductive, but I am certain that this was a necessary experience — or perhaps better put, experiment — for me. Intuition is a hot topic, particularly with the spiritually …

Limbo

Trust your vision and go with it. The suffering is not in the right or wrong, good, or bad. It is in the in between. The indecision. The middle ground where you're not all in or all out, But stuck stubbornly on the fence. Thinking, thinking, thinking... "should I this?" or "should I that?" The longer …